Dating Process

I’ve never dated; yet, I’ve never found obstacles in obtaining a "girlfriend". I know it sounds bad, but it really isn’t, they do the obtaining, I just do the accepting. Going back to the original point, dating is not necessary for love to bloom; au contraire, dating puts pressure on the individuals, forcing unwanted, unplanned actions to take place. Instead of thinking about the dinner outing as a date, think of it as a friendly outing, and automatically the pressure goes off. It is similar to giving a presentation to crowded room, when standing up you feel naked, but when you sit down everything is fine. So, it’s really a mind set, thinking of the other person as a regular-platonic-friend-in-the-making takes away the thought of you wanting to be over, or under them as some point in the future; thus, taking away the possibility of you acting like a complete idiot.