Question
It’s not easy being me, the complete imbalance of needs, supply, and demands, driven by moral, forces of nature, desire to belong, and be wanted, causes reality to shift at a faster rate than I care to live by.
How do you prove love? This question came about while exploring one of my previous postings. I really don’t know how you can prove love without the use of time. That’s my take on it, that’s the only factor that I think can give enough evidence of love. How do you prove that you love your dad, mom, God, or anything for that matter? If you have any idea how to prove such a thing, share, let me know.
Told you I had a lot of time on my hands.
How do you prove love? This question came about while exploring one of my previous postings. I really don’t know how you can prove love without the use of time. That’s my take on it, that’s the only factor that I think can give enough evidence of love. How do you prove that you love your dad, mom, God, or anything for that matter? If you have any idea how to prove such a thing, share, let me know.
Told you I had a lot of time on my hands.
posted by RND-Thoughts at 6/13/2005 10:16:00 AM
4 Comments:
i think sometimes time spent can disprove love and ruin whatever repetore you have been trying to build up...this, of course, is to be blamed for whatever actions occurred to disprove love and devotion, so i think in the long run, time hurts chances rather than helps them. not that i could tell you how to prove love either, i am just wary of the waiting. the greatest love is to lay down your life for one you love...but again, if you wait till then, well, its over. im just letting a stream of consciousness run on this thought, i have no real answer, and as you can see, i am pessimistic as to any way that might prove love, cuz its hard to be objective. there now, i havent helped at all! but thats all i got. :) kisses
I can understand your pessimism. With the possibility of reaching the “plateau” after time cause the relationship to be old, increases the chances for unhealthy things to happen. In that sense, time is the enemy. Yet again, when the “plateau” is reached, the actions taken then can prove beyond any reasonable doubt that love exists. In that regard time would be a friend. Like you, I have no idea about this one, I’ll keep scratching my head until something pops up, or I go bald.
Thanks for your input (forgot to mention that in the previous post)
love at it's best is two fold -- the feeling and the action
chances are, most aren't faced with a life and death situation that will prove to someone you love them
how I would try to prove love, how I would lay down my life....
always buys those cookies he loves, even if I don't like them, and I can only buy one kind
never cook things he doesn't like (for him). NEVER cook things he hates around him, even if I love them
wear clothes that he likes to see me in (usually *no* clothes)
give him massages, when i am dead tired, in the middle of the night
listen to what he has to say, even when he pisses me off
don't go "there" in an argument
being active in finding more ways to please him and make him feel great, even though I am lazy
instead of showing that I am right, or compromising to keep the peace -- BE the peace -- do my best to spew sweetness from my lips
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